Tag Archives: California

Things HAVE Changed. I Have Changed.

It’s amazing what can happen when you let go.  And I have truly let go.  I am so far gone from that stoop that I teetered on a year ago.  On occasion, I do get frustrated, but not like I … Continue reading

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The “Just Before”

Just before I asked J for a divorce, I took a lot of time to think about it.  I had for months before we moved to Georgia.  After we moved, I knew I was not going to be able to … Continue reading

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Breaking the Cycle: Part II

A lot seems to be going around about addiction and what effects it has on those that are the addicts, as well as those around the addicts.  I care for two addicts.  My father and my soon to be ex-husband. … Continue reading

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Breaking the Cycle: Part I

A lot seems to be going around about addiction and what effects it has on those that are the addicts, as well as those around the addicts.  I care for two addicts.  My father and my soon to be ex-husband.  … Continue reading

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My Apologies

My last post didn’t sit well with me.  I sounded very angry and uncaring.  I would like to apologize to anyone that has read it.  I don’t like feeling or sounding angry and bitter, as I believe I can “catch … Continue reading

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It’s All About Him

My boy has been attending his new school (actually daycare) for a couple of months now.  He continually tells me that he likes his old school better.  Well, I do too, but this daycare with free Pre-K included is what … Continue reading

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A Funny Story, Sorta

My mom and I speak on the phone a couple of times a week and we see each other about every other weekend.  We have a good relationship and she helps with my son when I need it.  She is … Continue reading

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A Year Later, Remembering My Journey

  As much as I would like to think I am over my impending divorce and the end of my marriage, there are always little reminders of what used to be. The other day I attempted to create a log … Continue reading

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Absence Makes the Heart Grow Less Fond

I have been absent for a while.  I am still processing what happened while my STBX was here for a week.  It’s all an angry blur.  I am still angry.  I thought, I hoped, that if I write this out, … Continue reading

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The Unspeakable

WARNING:  THE FOLLOWING POST IS ABOUT ABORTION.  IF YOU ARE STRONGLY ANTI-ABORTION, PLEASE MOVE ON AND DO NOT READ THIS POST. I have idly sat by and heard so much political bullshit on the topic of women’s rights.  It’s absolutely … Continue reading

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